Learning From The Pros: 4 things ladies can learn about sex from porn stars
We have our different dispositions about porn stars. Like I have written previously that there are things that you don’t need to do exactly like porn stars do because it’s their job and they have no emotional investment in the act unlike you.
Okay, so that point in one hand, on the flip side as well, there are also tips and ideas that can be picked up from porn stars, by using these tips, you can take your sexuality to a new level, making you a diva in bed.
Some of these tips are what makes these guys know, they aren’t secrets per say but you might not have noticed them but here they are.
1. They’re totally down for it.
If you think back to almost all the porno movies you’ve seen, it always seemed like the actors were crazy because they wanted to have sex, anywhere, everywhere and all the time. In all fairness, that’s acting but you can use this to your advantage. The mere act that you act like you want it can create the right mood for sex.
The enthusiasm that you long to have him or her will drive your partner crazy, act like you’ve got an itch that his dick is the only one in the world that can satisfy you. The fact that you crave him is bound to lighten things up. During all the stages of the sex, from foreplay to oral sex to sex, make sure that you give off the vibe that it’s what you want as well.
2. They don’t bother about body structure neither should you.
We have a conversation about how porn stars look and how they look, and you can argue that they have great bodies so they don’t care. Porn stars know that guys don’t really care about what is the color of their toe-nails when having sex, they don’t concern themselves with cellulites, they live in the moment. Guys could care less about your body while sex is going on.
So, just go ahead and have a wonderful sex, forget the insecurities you’ve got about your body.
3. They dress up for it
Have you noticed in porno that ladies always wear revealing stuff, you can see the boobs pouring out of the dress. There is a reason for that, and it is simply that men are visual creatures, and are driven by what they see. In case, you have those push-up bras that you don’t like wearing, think about wearing it and see how your partner reacts to them.
A scantily dressed lady will give more boners than a fully dressed lady. Instead of stripping naked, you can try leave on some flimsy clothings, and maybe leave the light on. The adventure of him leaving up your skirt to have sex is more exciting than regular sex. Dressing sexy isn’t just for sex about also what you wear around the house, let his mind wonder when you pass by.
4. They talk dirty
You hate it right? You often imagine why people talk during sex in the first place. It doesn’t feel right for you but its more fun that way. Porn stars always say what they want and how they want it. Talking dirty can make sex much more steamy.
If you’ve always been the quiet one during sex, you might want to start incorporating sounds into it. Dirty talk is a blow by blow of what is going on which is always makes it very hot. You can both encourage each other to talk dirty to get your grooves on.
