One of the land mine filled part of sexuality is fingering, you can be driving in the wrong direction full speed without considering it twice. While the guy may be oblivious of the situation, the lady definitely knows how she feels.
According to Lane Moore, Cosmopolitan, here are things that women think about while being finger banged.
1. Where does he think the clitoris is
This is perhaps one of the most popular problem with inexperienced guys, if you don’t know where the clitoris is, go to Google, and look for a female reproductive system diagram and check the labels, don’t just go there and be digging like you’re looking for gold.
2. He thinks he’s going great
The look on his face seems satisfying but he’s doing an awful job down there, he cannot find the clitoris, he’s rubbing too hard, it’s just plain bad.
3. He thinks his fingers can serve as penis
Guys definitely get carried away, and then think they can achieve the same type of penetration as a real penis. It’s not, just stop it and focus on the clitoris and the surrounding.
4. When he’s doing his favorite move
Almost guy has a favorite move during fingering, foreplay or penetrative sex but it won’t work out well for everyone. It gets worse when he intensifies the move that doesn’t mean shit, maybe his ex was faking it and he’s here thinking she loved it then every lady will love it.
5. When it’s not going anywhere good
So, she decides to allow the move go on, see if it will eventually become pleasurable but sadly it crashed on lift off, and then she blames herself for not trying enough.
Bonus point: To correct him?
Being corrected about everything can been as emasculating especially when it comes to sex. Guys think they’ve been pre-installed with how to have sex by God, so they don’t need to learn anything, everything they do is by instinct. So, finding a way to point to him, here is the clitoris can be very difficult to do.
